hot mess

/HH AA1 T M EH0 S/
noun
  1. 1

    A warm meal, usually cooked in a large pot, often similar to a stew or porridge; service of such a heated meal to soldiers.

noun
  1. 1

    A situation or object in a state of extreme disarray.

  2. 2

    A disheveled or unbalanced person, particularly one who is nevertheless, or therefore, attractive.

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